Nope, I did not get laid by three separate guys.. the title just denotes the three guys playing a different part in my life here in Hong Kong at the moment.
First, it is the Indian guy I met through Craigslist a while ago. He is a kind and very fit person. Honestly, I think I'd consider being with him if the Chinese race is not so unfriendly toward Indians. I am not sure if I want to deal with all that. Anyhow, I lost my keys to my house Thursday night and I went and spent the night at his place. We slept in the same bed but did not have sex. My period was starting and I felt frazzled from losing my key and my long time away has made me awkward being with him. He was sweet. We talked about Hong Kong, work, etc.
Second guy is a young geeky guy friend. He came for brunch with a few ex-colleagues. A kind and helpful guy, he nonetheless is affected by the unique obsession on schools, in the same vein that many here are obsessed about jobs and money. He kept on bringing examples of overachievers, those who went to the Ivy League etc, yet my ex-colleague and he would complain about how unfair the system is and how most people don't have a shot at it because they are not connected or do not have money. Another point for leaving Hong Kong.
Third guy is probably one of my best friends in Hong Kong. He was just about to be married to a Japanese girl when they found that she has cancer. At his parents' urging, they split up. It is a sad state of affairs and my role was to cheer him up. We had dinner and walked around the bay where he wanted to move away from his family. I like him. I don't have a strong passion for him as I had for my previous affairs and fixation but his calm and laid-back nature could complement my more firy disposition. I don't know how it will pan out. I did spend a long time talking about investment. I need more self-control and other interest to not talk about that in the future I think.
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